10 Items To Take Back to University After The Break

These last two weeks I have been able to relax at home over the mid-semester break. This has been fantastic. I have been able to see my friends again, my boyfriend and my family. Of course there have been many other perks too. These include my grandma’s amazing baking and access to stuff I don’t have in my dorm such as lemons. Unfortunately these things can’t last forever and tomorrow I am returning to university.

I packed pretty well the first time I went to university-you can check my packing list https://www.petitechai.com/2017/03/03/college-packing-list/. Despite this, there are a few things that I didn’t anticipate that I would need, and others that I left behind on purpose. So since I am returning to university, I am going through all of the remaining stuff in my bedroom, as well as the cupboards around home, and choosing what I am bringing back with me.

Take a look at these ten items that I am bringing back when I return to university after the break

Ten Items To Take Back To University

Unfortunately I am unable to bring a suitcase back with me. These take up too much room in the dorms, and it would be too difficult to bring on the bus. Plus I am far too unfit to be walking the twenty minutes from the bus stop to my dorm with a heavy suitcase, especially since its directly uphill. So I will be piling everything I am taking back with me into a large backpack. Read on for my list of ten items that I am bringing back to university with me.

  1. A large fluffy blanket

    I received an amazing throw from my grandma for Christmas. It is blue and fluffy and super warm!! Now that it is getting colder, I definitely want something for my dorm room to keep me warm. Blankets are amazing because you can use it on your bed, or wrap yourself up when it gets cold.

  2. Shampoo and Conditioner

    This is kind of a cheat because it is actually two items, but these things always go together anyway. I timed my shower product usage perfectly as I had barely any left when I got home. I’ve always believed in using good products in my hair, however this does make it slightly expensive so I am happy I can bring these back up with me.

  3. Ugg Boots/ Slippers

    When I am at home I live in these! However I didn’t think that I would use them when I got to university. How wrong was I! In the mornings, especially when I don’t need to get ready to go anywhere, I don’t like putting on shoes. It is so much extra effort. Plus I don’t like putting on socks unnecessarily when I am the one doing the washing. Having slippers to put on is going to be so much nicer than wearing jandals, which can be pretty cold in winter.

  4. Easter Eggs

    My mid-semester break coincided with the Easter holidays. This was nice because I got to be home for Easter. I have younger siblings so we always have an Easter bunny hunt. Aside from being pretty fun, this is a great way to stock up on chocolate for a chocoholic like me. I still have plenty left over so I am definitely bringing these back up with me. Can’t be letting one of my siblings have them now can we.

  5. Face Wash

    The first time I went up, I made the mistake of bringing with me a face wash that exfoliates your skin. While this is nice, and definitely good to use once or twice a week, you can’t use it everyday. As a consequence my skin got pretty oily because I didn’t have anything else to wash my face with. Since these things are pretty expensive, I decided to wait until I got home to grab my usual face wash, so I am hoping to keep my acne under control now. If anyone has any cheap, university dorm friendly acne remedies, please comment them down below. Much appreciated!

  6. Drivers Licence

    I was on the plane up to university back in February when I realised something major. I had forgotten my drivers licence! Luckily I had my passport to use as ID, however I would much rather have my drivers licence with me to carry round rather than my much larger, more valuable passport. I wasn’t able to get it before the mid-semester break so I am happy to have the chance to get it now. Lets hope I don’t leave it in my car again!

  7. Warm Sweaters

    I made the dumb decision to not bring my warm jerseys with me the first time I went up, believing it wouldn’t be that cold. Huge mistake! This time I am taking as many as I can. I absolutely love knitwear and jerseys though, and I plan to be purchasing a few more for the winter season, such as these cheap and comfy pieces from Sheln.com

  8. Basic Healthcare

    I am lucky that I haven’t got sick yet, however it can only be a matter of time. It is so much easier to bring all this stuff up with me, rather than to be purchasing it once I am already sick. Included in this list is tissues and Vicks, and I’ll bring a few more painkillers and sanitary items with me as well to restock my supplies.

  9. Birthday Gift

    While I was at home over the break, it was my friend’s birthday. As a birthday gift I am bringing her back some fancy body wash and an arty/design gift. Since she loves magic and fantasy as much as me, I decided to bring her back a unicorn card. It is for four year olds, but hopefully she won’t mind!

  10. Shoes

    I do a lot of walking at university. My daily average is 12,000 steps, with my record so far at 33,000. The consequence of this was that my shoes got wrecked. They were pretty old anyway, but I have worn the backs out of them now, so much so that there is a whole in the back! I will be purchasing two pairs of shoes to bring back with me after the break.

    Take a look at these ten items that I am bringing back when I return to uni after the break

So hopefully I’ll be able to fit all of this in my backpack to be coming back with me. If not I might just have to wear tonnes of clothes on the plane! I also have to fit my textbooks and laptop in there as well, and they are most certainly not light!

Wish me luck guys!

Alura xx

Overcoming Struggles in a Long Distance Relationship

My boyfriend and I are both rather shy, busy and indecisive people. The combination of these factors meant that unfortunately we began dating with only two months left of our final year of high school. Initially, I agreed to go out with him on the condition that we separated before I headed off to university. I didn’t want to do long distance. I had never been good at keeping in contact with people and I didn’t want to ruin the great relationship I already had. While initially we agreed on this, the date began to draw closer and my boyfriend began to make it clear to me that he wanted to keep our relationship. And, despite my worries and fears, I did too.

It hasn’t been easy. In fact there has been a couple of times where I have seriously considered breaking up. But we are still together and going strong. I’m writing this post to prove today that it is possible, but you have to be prepared to put in the time and the effort.

Here is what you need to do to maintain a long distance relationship.

Read on for my tips to make your LDR work
LDR’s are difficult! Heres my experiences and how I’ve learnt to make my relationship work.

Make Time For Communication

Communication is really important. Seriously. Of course the frequency of your communication depends on how busy you both are. You have to make time for it though. When I first moved to university I was super busy, getting to know everyone and enjoying my new freedom away from home. I admit that in that first week I neglected our communication quite a bit. However, previous to that I had been spending all day at home, waiting for my boyfriend’s occasional texts that he sent from work. So of course I was never going to respond with that frequency now. It was a change we both had to learn to accept.

How to do it

A lack of communication can lead to break ups. The other person will feel so far away and unreachable. So you have to make time for it. My boyfriend and I find that texting as often as we can throughout the day is the easiest way to keep in contact. However it is important that if you go this route then you tell your partner if you are going to be absent for a few hours so they understand. We also try and call at nights as often as we can, often on the phone for several hours.  I cannot stress how important communication is in a relationship. Work out what works best for your relationship but NEVER go a full day without some form of communication unless it is unavoidable and if so tell the other person in advance.

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Technology is a great way to keep your relationship strong

 

Talk About Your Feelings

This was something I really needed to work on in our relationship. I like to come across as tough. If something is bothering me, I will just bury my feelings. We all know this is super unhealthy. Especially in a relationship. Your partner isn’t there beside you. They don’t know that you are upset unless you tell them. If they have done something you are not happy about, they cannot apologise or talk it over with you if they don’t know about it. There was one day that I was a little sad. I had gotten up early so that I could talk to my boyfriend on the phone, but he didn’t call for over an hour. When he finally did I was pretty unhappy. Initially, I tried to hide it. In the end I just told him and we could talk about it. We both promised to be more accommodating in the future.

How to do it

Whenever you are unhappy, no matter what it is, you have to tell your partner. Especially if it is evident in your texts or phone calls. If your partner has done something you don’t like, tell them! It is likely that they will not have realised, and this gives you the opportunity to discuss it together and reach a mutual understanding. Regardless of who or what caused it, telling your partner how you are feeling is a great way to grow closer together. I always feel so relieved after these sorts of conversations because I feel like my partner trusts me enough to confide in me, and we can approach this problem like a team. I promise you are not a burden to them! They want to know.

Always Be Honest

When you are not with your partner daily, they do not know what is going on in your life. So it can be easy to avoid telling them about areas that aren’t easy to discuss. An example of this occurred near the beginning of my time in university. I was out late with some friends and I started talking to another guy since we were the only two sober people there. I was tired and asked him to walk me back to my hall. A few days later he began texting me. He was friendly, so I didn’t want to be rude and ask him to stop, and in the short time that we were texting we only discussed casual university stuff. However, I still felt guilty, especially as I could tell the guy liked me so I stopped our conversation. I wasn’t sure what to tell my boyfriend. I didn’t want him to worry because nothing had, or would happen. In the end I just told him everything, showed him our texts and promised nothing had happened. I felt so much better afterwards and I feel like he trusts me more now.

How to do it

If you ever feel slightly guilty or uneasy about anything that has happened, then just tell your partner. Explain what happened thoroughly and answer any questions they might have. While it is really important that you never cheat or do anything to betray your partner’s trust, there are grey areas sometimes when nothing happened but you still don’t feel happy. When that happens just talk to them! Trust is key here. If your partner ever tells you anything, you must believe them and trust in their account unless you have good reason not to. And if you aren’t happy with their actions or their story, talk to them! Jealousy can break up relationships if you let it.

Find Ways To Connect

There are so many LDR resources out there for “date nights” and activities to try. My partner and I haven’t actually used any of these yet, however this is something I really want to do. It allows you and your partner to make memories and have fun together even though you might be hours away. Another way to form connections is  to constantly be searching for ways to meet up. If my boyfriend is going to be in my city for a couple of hours, of course I am going to go see him. Then during my holidays, I am going home, no matter what. It is important to make memories together because when you are alone and they are far away it is all you have.

How to do it

Check out LDR resources online for activities you and your partner can do together. Some common ones include 20 Questions or watching the same movie at the same time. Try to regularly have a date night where you call or video chat and have some fun together. The most exciting part of any Long Distance Relationship is when you finally get together again so you should constantly be searching for ways to make it happen. Be on the look out for cheap transport options or days off where you can see each other again. Mark it on a calendar and look forward to it! The most exciting part of a LDR relationship is when you can finally see your partner again!

Read on for my tips to make your LDR work
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Good luck to all of you in a LDR relationship. I would love to connect with you all. Maybe you could comment down below and we could discuss other challenges that we have or ways to make everything easier. It definitely can be tough sometimes. For all those who are considering an LDR, I won’t pretend it is easy, and I won’t promise that you will succeed. But if you are committed enough and you follow the above rules, then you’ll be fine.

Cheers Alura xx

How to motivate yourself to get up in the mornings and all the reasons why you should

All The Benefits to Waking Up Early + The Secret Way To Do It

I have always been a morning person. I blame my mother for this one. We used to have a rule in our house where we were only allowed to watch TV in the mornings. I think when mum developed this rule she intended it to be for about thirty minutes while we ate our breakfast.

However, she did not anticipate my brother and I getting up at 6am every day to watch cartoons before school. When I was twelve, I began 5am morning trainings. So while other teenagers where lying in bed, savouring those last few minutes before getting up for school, I was already swimming laps in the town pool. Even now, I like to wake up early. It’s a habit. A rather useful one. One I want the rest of you to develop. So read on to learn the vast benefits to waking up early and how to do it effectively to get the most out of your day.

How to motivate yourself to get up in the mornings and all the reasons why you should
Most people find waking up early a chore. Makeover your mornings and get up easy.

Benefits to Waking Up Early

Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t like actually waking up or getting ready. When my alarm goes off in the morning there is nothing I would rather do than turn it off and go back to sleep. The only thing that stops me is the mere fact that I have to get up. There are too many benefits to waking up early that I don’t want to miss out on. These include…..

  • Getting up early makes you more productive.

    If you are waking up at 6am, there best be a good reason for it! I always use my mornings to go to the gym or workout, however I have also found it is a good time to study. Many people also use mornings as a way to improve their wellbeing. I haven’t really tried that yet but it is definitely something you should look into. Pick a reason to get up and use it as motivation!

  • Better Sleep Patterns.

    The thought of getting up early is a great motivator to make sure you are in bed at a reasonable hour. When I was a swimmer, I used to be in bed at 8pm every night. While I am much more relaxed about my bedtimes now, I always ensure I get at least seven hours sleep. Which means going to bed before midnight

  • More Peaceful Morning

    Very few people want to be up before the sun. Which is excellent for us morning folk. The gym is always quieter, there is barely any traffic (depending on where you live) and you don’t have to fight anyone for the shower. As a shy introvert myself, the thought of less people around is a great motivator to get up.

  • Everyone Has A Purpose

    You will not see anybody wake up at 6am and then spend the next few hours lazing around. People up at this time are healthy, motivated and energised. This makes it a great atmosphere, especially if you are feeling particularly tired. There won’t be anyone hogging the spin bikes while they sit on their phones barely pedalling. And there is not likely to be anyone around to distract you from your work, either at home or in the office.

  • Less Likely To Rush

    We’ve all been there. Woken up with only a few minutes to throw on some clothes and run out the door. For some this can even be a daily event. Not when you wake up early though. When you have several hours to get things done before work you are able to relax, take time for yourself, and feel better. Spend time making yourself a delicious healthy breakfast. Have a few extra minutes to style your hair or pick out some nice looking clothes instead of the first ones you can find. You will feel better!

All the secrets to starting your day in style
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So How Do I Get Up Early?

That’s the real question isn’t it. With over ten years of experience under my belt, I know what works for me. Play around with these ideas though. Find something that gets you up and going.

  1. Know why you are getting up and what you want to accomplish in the morning
  2. Put out everything you need the night before
  3. Make sure you get enough sleep
  4. Have a nice alarm sound
  5. Get out of bed the moment your alarm goes off-it makes it so much easier!
  6. If the sun is up then open your curtains. Natural light really helps!
  7. Keep busy-don’t give yourself time to fall back asleep
  8. Have a delicious breakfast planned to look forward to.
  9. If you like noise in the mornings, have an inspirational playlist ready. If not, try and limit the sound around you.
  10. Be positive! This time will prepare you for the rest of the day. Only think happy thoughts
  11. Learn to enjoy your morning-find little things you love about waking up early and use those to motivate yourself in the future.
  12. Brag about your achievement. Not only will this make you feel proud, it will mean you have to keep doing it.
How to motivate yourself to get up in the mornings and all the reasons why you should
Most people find waking up early a chore. Makeover your mornings and get up easy.

So there we go. All the benefits to waking up early and the secrets to help you get there.Are you guys morning risers too? Let me know in the comments below if this has helped anyone create a brilliant start to their day.